Most males discover masturbation at 14 or 15 females usually about 17or18 and with a girlfriend the female continues it into her 60s and continues to enjoy it solo My 57 year old neighbour with whom we share a common driveway gets off every night at 9.00pm I keep the lights off blinds drawn and masturbate while she masturbates she likes talking and more flirting my objective is to have sex with her